Ta-Ling Lee,Ph.D., parent, grandfather, and Professor Emeritus at the University of Connecticut stated, this book is "A systemized approach to common sense."

The book provides a simple way to think about parenting during moments of stress, celebration and problem solving. Assuring self-value and developing self- competency skills can happen in a home where consistent discipline approaches are practiced.

In Ada's book, she offers a framework as a way to think about parenting. Ada shares how this simple but effective way of thinking, provides parents and those who care for children a way to deliver direct and clear messages, that enable families to enliven their faith and establish rituals and routines through purposeful parenting. The Red Yellow Green Framework is a tool to help parents purposefully determine family direction, family communication, and family relationships. It provides persons working with parents with a shared language allowing difficult and important conversations to occur.